Staff Blogs

By Bob Hulteen

I’m a communications director. I’ve previously been employed by faith-based nonprofits, and now I work on messaging for the synod – telling the synod’s story in a light that is accessible and relatable. Often it involves discerning the optimal angle from which to view a situation. I’m fully aware that most people call this “spin.”

Whenever I talk with folks in the church, I go to my most authoritative source: The West Wing – you know, the show starring Martin Sheen. But, first, let’s take a look at the Bible. In fact, let’s consider this week’s Revised Common Lectionary reading: For the Seventeenth Sunday after Pentecost, the gospel reading is Mark 8:27-38. Let’s take a quick look at the middle section, just after Jesus asks his crew, while in Caesarea Philippi, what people are saying about him:

“[Jesus] began to teach them that the Son of Man must undergo great suffering, and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes, and be killed, and after three days rise again. He said all this quite openly. And Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him.”

Well, first, wow on Peter. That took some “courage” to rebuke Jesus.

“The theology of the cross calls us to do better than spin.”

Second, I can almost imagine what Peter said. Or, at least, I can imagine what I would have said. “Hey, Jesus. You know, we’ve been doing pretty well lately. The crowds are growing. And, I don’t know if you know this, Jesus, but talking about being rejected and suffering and dying doesn’t really sell well. Could we try something a little more uplifting? How about if you just say, ‘There, of course, will be challenges ahead, but don’t worry, all will be good in the end.’ I think folks might go for that more.”

It’s all about how you sell it. It’s all about the spin.

OKAY, NOW LET’s ALL be reminded of The West Wing. (At least, I hope this is a reminder of a particular episode. Everyone should have watched the entire series – multiple times – by now.)

The tension in this Year 2000 episode (or the side-tension to relieve a little of the tension from the primary motif) centers around Charlie, President Bartlet’s personal assistant, telling a reporter from Oregon that the President doesn’t like green beans.

Charlie and CJ discuss President Bartlet’s dislike of green beans in an episode of The Wing Wing.

What’s the big deal with that? Press Secretary C.J. Cregg reminds Charlie that Bartlet only won the state of Oregon by 10,000 votes in the previous election, and things aren’t looking great in the re-election campaign at the moment. The campaign needs Oregon’s Electoral College votes.

“‘Education is a serious thing. Crime, jobs, national security.’”

The White House senior staff goes into uber mode trying to figure out how to spin Charlie’s offhand comment. (Yeah, it’s a little disconcerting to think that the brightest minds in government could devote a good bit of time to “spinning” the fact that the Commander-in-Chief doesn’t like green beans.)

If you want to watch snatches of this episode from the greatest TV drama of all time, go here and here.

JESUS WASN’T SO interested in spin. He knew that his vocation of bringing good news to the poor would have a certain inevitability about it; he was aware that the language he used was challenging. But, he didn’t sugarcoat what he was asking of his disciples – neither the ones with the capital D nor all those small d folks who followed. (Neither of those stand for Democrats, btw; both are about disciples.)

Jesus warned Peter to reconcile his fear of the future with the vision of God’s redemption of creation within Godself. Peter’s own insecurity should not and could not deter Jesus from inevitable confrontation. The theology of the cross calls us to do better than spin. It calls to do go places we never anticipated. It calls us to care deeply about our struggling neighbors.

“And Peter took [Jesus] aside and began to rebuke him.”

So, Charlie from The West Wing offers a word of wisdom in the aforementioned episode: “Education is a serious thing. Crime, jobs, national security.” The things that affect people’s lives directly are way more serious topics than favorite (or least favorite) foods.

With a federal vote on the horizon (much like our current reality), C.J. states that “everyone is stupid in an election year.” Charlie responds, “No, everyone gets treated like they’re stupid in an election year, C.J.”

As our election-based anxiety is high, let’s try to keep our spin in check. The truth just might be the most powerful story of all to tell.

By Pastor Wondimu Sonessa

While recently thinking about the value of partnerships, I reflected on the experience of the apostle Paul and his companions as they were sailing for Rome. During the several days of this journey, they encountered a dangerous wind.

Luke recorded their experience during this oversea commute saying that “neither sun nor stars appeared for many days, and no small tempest raged, all hope of our being saved was at last abandoned” (Acts 27:20). After a devastating shipwreck, the traveling party came to the Island of Malta. Even as a significant journey remained for the travelers, the natives there greeted them with an “unusual kindness.” As Luke reports, “Since it had begun to rain and was cold, they kindled a fire and welcomed all of us around it” (Acts 28:2).

A sustainable partnership is based on kindness and love that prompts us to kindle a fire of compassion around which we welcome those who are not optimistic about the future of their ministries. It also requires courage with which we cross over our presuppositions and past experiences to rebuilding trust and relationship with our neighbor.

“In a healthy partnership, there is a mutual interdependence in which we share the gifts we have received from God.”

In partnership, the relationship is based not on a wealthy congregation giving and the other receiving. It is a mutual interdependence in which we share the gifts we have received from God. It was not just the natives of the Island that served Paul and his companions, but also Paul himself visited the father of Publius the community leader who was sick. Paul “cured him by praying and putting his hand on him” (Acts 28:8).

Partnership is a response to the grace of God that involves giving ourselves to the will of God. Once we understand this, we can strengthen fellowship in our ministry by sharing with our neighbors even those things we perceive that we need for survival.

THE SIMPLIST EXPRESSION of partnership is when churches lean on each other for an ongoing fruitful engagement in God’s mission. This becomes practical only if we can see and recognize the grace of God that works in and through the life of all believers, particularly those at the margin in society.

Thus, it is not a taboo to talk about money in partnership. Yet it is not healthy to establish a relationship on the generosity of one church where the other church is identified as a mere receiver of the financial and other material blessings. We share our gifts and resources to support and encourage each other in ministry. Congregations don’t have to be rich to do so but to be able to see this fellowship as an opportunity to combine our small gifts and experiences in preaching the gospel and building up the church as the body of Christ.

“Partnership is a response to the grace of God that involves giving ourselves to the will of God.”

Macedonian Christians set us a good example in this regard. Their generosity could have been hindered by the extreme poverty they were experiencing. Paul testifies, “they gave themselves first to the Lord and, by the will of God, to us” (2 Corinthians 8:1-5). Whenever we focus on the grace of God that is given to each of our congregations, whether they are new ministries, strategic congregations, or well-established self-supportive churches, nothing we bring to partnership will be insignificant to God’s mission entrusted to the church.

It is my prayer that the Holy Spirit may initiate a passion for an unusual kindness with which our congregations can kindle a fire of partnership and welcome all around it in the years to come.

By Pastor John Hulden

My siblings and I all graduated from our very own high school in our very own time zone. Growing up, we moved about every five years following our pastor-Dad to his next call – always to a new time zone. Despite my DNA, I’ve been able to lengthen my calls to at least double that – and all in Minnesota. My last call was 16 years, so all four of our kids went to the same high school – Go Spuds!

My first call – for ten years – was to the lower East Side of Saint Paul. Wow, did those lovely people help me to become a pastor. Like the song about San Francisco (where my oldest brother went to high school), I left (at least a piece of) my heart on the East Side.

“The director and small staff worked long hours because families had trouble getting ahead if parents didn’t have a day care option.”

My little church on the East Side had a childcare center that struggled mightily to make ends meet. I saw the director and small staff work long hours because families had trouble getting ahead if parents didn’t have a day care option. Those of you in congregations with day care centers know the struggle of providing this needed ministry.

LAST WEDNESDAY I returned to the East Side of Saint Paul, and it made my heart sing. Through the hard work of East Siders, Lutheran Social Service (LSS), and the Saint Paul Area Synod, there was a ribbon cutting ceremony.

Years in the making, the LSS Early Learning Center–East Side will soon open on the lower level of Grace Lutheran Church, just off I-94 and White Bear Avenue. This early learning center is unique because of its trauma-informed classroom instruction and integrated therapy support. Kids will experience a highly supportive preschool with student-to-teacher ratios of four-to-one. East Side preschoolers will have a fighting chance as they reach public school age and take the big step of starting kindergarten. And as a great help to those East Side families, the center will be open year-round with full-day classes.

“This early learning center is unique because of its trauma-informed classroom instruction and integrated therapy support.”

Kudos to LSS and our synod siblings across the river. Their effort is another shining example of church together. When we followers of Jesus discover the assets in our community, listen to our neighbors, and then team up to make something beautiful and beneficial, we can make many hearts sing – hearts both old like mine and very young.

By Bob Hulteen  

During my morning devotion time a couple months ago, I heard a story on Minnesota Public Radio (don’t judge me for listening to the radio during my devotions) about a car fire the night before along Interstate 94 near Snelling that had snarled traffic just after rush hour. Cathy Wurzer (isn’t she the best?) described the scene of a car engulfed in flames with a driver trapped inside. Detailing the situation, she noted cars stopping smack dab in the middle of the highway, seemingly immobilized by the horrifying circumstances.  

I offered a quick prayer for the wellbeing of all involved. And, I moved on with my devotional reading and reflection.  

It was a few weeks later when I came across  a video of the car accident and was pulled back to that moment. I found an online for a news story and learned more of the details. I was shocked that this story was everything but your ordinary tragic accident. This is what caused those cars to stop abruptly in the middle of the road: The Interstate’s guard rail obstructed the driver’s door of the crashed vehicle, and flames engulfed the undercarriage. The driver was trapped inside. And clearly, the car would soon be ablaze. 

“Once that person jumped in, many others followed suit, risking their wellbeing by joining him.” 

Of course, cars were slowing, many drivers undecided on how to react. That is, until one person quickly pulled over, jumped out of their vehicle, and quickly began wrenching the car door to free the trapped driver. And, once that person jumped in, many others followed suit, risking their wellbeing by joining him. Working together, the driver was freed; after many unsuccessful attempts to open the car door, the group managed to break the driver’s-side window and drag him out.  

It was a Good Samaritan story to say the least. And yet it struck me how willing these passersby were to put themselves amid the flames to make sure that man got out.  

SINCE WATCHING THAT video, I have been reflecting about similar situations in my life. On an entrance ramp in Dayton, Ohio, I once came upon a car engulfed in flames myself. Against the better judgment of my riders, I jumped out to make sure no one was in that car, and was grateful to find it empty. In that case, I didn’t have to make the difficult decision of approaching the fire, risking myself, for the safety of another. But it challenged me to consider if I would. 

Often while riding the bus, an incident of some sort will begin – normally a disagreement between passengers. My immediate response is to engage, but then I start to wonder if my actions will be misconstrued. Or, I’d question whether I was misreading the situation. Perhaps I was simply looking for an excuse not to become involved.  

My sense is that we don’t make the decision to be a Good Samaritan in the heat of the moment. Self-doubt and wrestling included, I think the decision to risk one’s own safety for another is an intentional decision, based on one’s real-world experience of community.  

“My sense is that we don’t make the decision to be a Good Samaritan in the heat of the moment.” 

One of the most important things I learned as a young person from movement leaders was that entering places of pain in the world is done with forethought; the benefits and risks are already weighed. Of course, we don’t know if that decision will be actualized until a risky situation presents itself (which hopefully it never does).  

Sure, adrenaline can play a part. But, I suspect that even that chemical reaction of the body happens because we have considered or lived in circumstances that “encourage” us to imagine how we would act.  

So, that’s now a regular part of my morning devotion: God, prepare me mentally, emotionally, spiritually to experience the life of community so abundantly that I can imagine that when crisis strikes, I don’t pull over to watch but rather rush in.  

By Mercy Zou Taithul

The ELCA Multicultural Youth Leadership Events (MYLE) and Young Adult Gathering (YAG) was held in New Orleans July 13-19. Although I’d never attended this event before, I was glad that I could represent the Minneapolis Area Synod’s Faith Practices and Neighboring Practices (FPNP), as well as participate in the MYLE Worship Band.

MYLE participants join worship band on stage

During my FPNP workshop, participants focused on finding assets such as gifts and strengths within ourselves, our community, and our neighborhoods. Well, I can confidently say that singing is one of my gifts and being able to share that gift with the youth and adults at the MYLE was one of my highlights. Not only did I get to share my gift of singing, but I also had the opportunity to find out more gifts as well as learn about different cultures and make new connections.

“The practice of asset mapping helps to identify gifts, passions, and assets within our community.”

Here are some of my highlights:

First, I led an hour-long workshop at the MYLE focusing on one of the practices from Faith Practices and Neighboring Practices – Asset-Based Community Development (ABCD). This practice helps to identify gifts, passions, and assets within our community. Almost 50 people attended.

The sharing of giftedness by the participants was incredible. The vast array of gifts shared in that hour made me wonder how many more gifts are out there in our neighborhoods undiscovered. (I invite you to take time to consider why so many gifts go unrecognized and how we can do a better job of helping people identify them).

A couple quotes I like from the workshop are “Focus on what is strong, not what is wrong,” and “Focus on people and not programs.” So, if we pay more attention to what is strong and get curious about others in our community and neighborhood, we might be surprised at the stories you hear.

SECONDLY, THE LAST worship night at MYLE felt like a revival. All the worship services during the week were beautiful and fun. But that specific last night: Oh what a powerful experience!

I can still feel the goose bumps, emotions, and joy I felt as we sang the song “You know my name” with youth joining the worship leaders on the stage; hands were lifted high and we acknowledged that God knows each of us by name.

Minneapolis young people and Post-It Notes, a natural alliance

Throughout the MYLE, I heard from a few youth for whom it was their first time standing on the stage to lead worship with the band. They said “This is fun” and “I would like to sing more.” I responded, “Well, you know what you can do, join the praise and worship team in your congregation when you return back home.” So, I encourage those of you who are church leaders to invite and create the space for youth to join the worship group.

“The last worship night at MYLE felt like a revival.”

Lastly, I had heard that there would be thousands of youths and leaders attending the Young Adult Gathering, but I couldn’t believe my eyes. The Smoothie King Stadium in New Orleans was filled with 16,000 young adults. When I looked around, I saw a room full of bright, intelligent and gifted future leaders.

The theme “Created to Be” was very powerful and an encouragement to reflect and remind ourselves who we are and Whose we are. A lot of speakers mentioned as well that we are created to be Brave, Authentic, Disciples, and Free.

Overall, it was a first great gathering. I learned new things, had a great experience, and learned something new about myself – that I am braver than I think about myself in terms of my leadership. I would like to end by reminding that God created each and every one of us uniquely, blessed us with different gifts/talents. Of all, you know what the most beautiful part is that we are created in God’s own image, therefore we are one.

By Jessie Goeke

I admire those who can embrace the unknown with open arms, though they are a rare and special breed. For the rest of us, transition and change can provoke feelings of fear, discomfort, and uncertainty. Yet, change is an inevitable part of all our lives.

When I started working at the synod office, I knew that in 10 short months our bishop, the staff, and the entire synod would undergo a season of transition that was not just a minor change, but rather a fundamental shift in the culture we had grown accustomed to, a change that would leave us all facing the reality that our futures would all look different in ways we couldn’t predict.

“Transitions are often a marathon, rather than a sprint.”

A truth that I know in my bones, however, is that we shouldn’t, and are never meant to, go through this type of journey alone.

When I think about how uncomfortable I feel with transition and change, this truth offers some solace. Even when my footing feels shaky, I know that calling on my people, trusting in God, and wading through the change with others in the same position as me, can ease the fear.

TRANSITION IS UPON the synod office these days. Alongside the many goodbyes, there are celebrations and reflections of how each of us have grown and the relationships that have been built. In a recent meeting, the staff reflected on the ways in which we have seen God at work in our tenure at the synod office. Nearly every example that was shared involved relationships. We have carried each other through the good and the bad; through grief and through fear. Though the uncertainty of change is palpable, one thing we can count on is that we are in this together.

Community is the antidote, the salve, the healing balm to the fear and uncertainty during transition. It is the mutual experience of change that draws us closer to one another.

Whether you are transitioning in big or small ways these days, I pray that you can find your community and lean into the unknown.

“Community is the antidote, the salve, the healing balm to the fear and uncertainty during transition.”

For support during periods of transition, here are 5 things you can do to help mitigate the emotional burden of change:

• Listen to your body. Trust your body’s instincts and attend to them. Do you need more sleep? Do you need to move your body? Do you need some comfort foods? Do you need to engage in a meditation or breathing practice? Take a necessary pause and answer those questions for yourself.
• Pace yourself. Transitions are often a marathon, rather than a sprint. Take breaks when you need to. Adjust your expectations.
• Lean into your community. You were never meant to do this alone. Connect with friends. Call a trusted family member. Spend time with individuals who accept you for who you are and for however you show up.
• Keep perspective. Transition is a normal part of the human experience. We have been transitioning and growing since day one and most of us have navigated seasons of tremendous change. Remember: “This too shall pass.”
• Turn back to God. Engage in spiritual practices that center the Holy Spirit. Prayer. Discernment. Reading scripture.

Jessie Goeke, MSW, LICSW, currently serving as executive assistant to the Bishop, is also a therapist working in private practice.

By Bob Hulteen

When you hang around a lot of Lutheran Christian-types (and their ecumenical friends and allies), you often hear the phrase “spiritual discipline” as a necessary part of following the way of Jesus. The more you poke at what is meant, the more complexity you recognize around not just the phrase, but its life-changing perspective.

For monastic leaders over many centuries of the Christian movement, “discipline” meant commitment to prayer, to poverty, to the stability of community. For Saint Ignatius Loyola, these disciplines were deemed “spiritual exercises.” Franciscans often called disciplines like fasting their “spiritual ideals.”

This photograph of Mohatma Gandhi is in the public domain.

To the Rev. Dr. James Lawson, who died a month ago today, it also meant confronting the “powers and principalities” that made both the sacred and the profane areas of life more challenging for the most marginalized. After spending a year as a Methodist missionary in India, studying the teachings of Mohatma Gandhi, he dedicated his life to nonviolent, direct action models of change.

“For Lawson, Christian faith demands the kind of discipleship required to truly engage Gandhi’s suppositions.”

After coming home from India and spending a year in jail for draft resistance during the Korean War, Lawson entered the Graduate School of Theology at Oberlin College. It was there that a visiting lecturer, the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., in 1956 agitated Lawson to join his freedom movement by bringing his nonviolent resistance perspective and training to the South.

This photograph of James Lawson is available under the Creative Commons CC0 1.0 Universal Public Domain Dedication.

Lawson was a critical part of the success of the Civil Rights Movement of the 1950s and ’60s. Confronting the sinful Jim Crow laws that dominated the era, he led famous sit ins at lunch counters and marches for freedom.

IT’S RIGHT AND GOOD to remember Lawson for the hero he has been. During these days, it is a critical spiritual exercise to remember his church-based nonviolent training of the movement. He was perpetually preparing church members and college students for what was inevitable for those working for social change.

These days, with heightened polarization around crucial social and political issues, I am thinking of his interaction with Gandhi’s perspective. While at Sojourners I was introduced to Gandhi’s “Seven Deadly Sins.” (We even sold it as a poster through the magazine.) Below are the planks of Gandhi’s thoughts about the dangers of the temptations we all must face; I share them for your consideration.

• Wealth without work
• Pleasure without conscience
• Knowledge without character
• Commerce without morality
• Science without humanity
• Religion without sacrifice
• Politics without principle

For Lawson, Christian faith demands the kind of discipleship required to truly engage Gandhi’s suppositions. Jesus’ words call us to the cross. Lawson’s biographer, David Halberstam, wrote of Lawson, “[H]e was a true radical Christian who feared neither prison nor death.” But, he was always prepared for either if that was part of being a follower of Jesus.

This photograph of Dietrich Bonhoeffer is made available by the German Federal Archive (Deutsches Bundesarchiv.

He was not unaware of what the cost for social change would be. Lawson was the person who encouraged King to lead the march for sanitation workers in Memphis in 1968, during which King was killed. He bore great guilt over his invitation.

“Bonhoeffer’s commitment to an “uncompromising discipleship” rooted in the Sermon on the Mount ensured that he would run afoul of the Nazi regime.”

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, after his life-altering years living and worshiping in Harlem, also knew of the need for discipline to face the trials of our times. Referring to the need for a new monasticism, he believed that the Sermon on the Mount detailed the disciplines of the faith.

Bonhoeffer’s commitment to an “uncompromising discipleship” rooted in the Sermon on the Mount ensured that he would run afoul of the Nazi regime; his death the inevitable result of his spiritual practice.

We are called to be disciples, clearly. As disciples, we learn the disciplines of our faith. And, we – each one of us – must ask what we are doing intentionally to put feet to our thoughts. We do so not for God’s sake, but for the sake of those that Jesus charged us to love – our neighbors.

By Nicholas Tangen

Last week, I spent three days hiking the Sage Creek Wilderness Area in Badlands National Park, a sharp, winding, and otherworldly landscape. We hiked a trailless loop through the backcountry, over tall geological formations, through knee-high prairie grass, and into concentrated stands of juniper trees.

The sky in the badlands was immense and the presence of bison, pronghorns, and coyote choirs transported us into a long-ago age for a few days. Everywhere we walked, cacti clung to the edges of crags and ledges, collecting water as they could from the harsh ground of the Badlands spires.  

“The harshness and the scarcity of even water in the desert put these early monks and hermits into a posture of utter dependence on God.”

In the evenings, as we recovered from hiking the tough terrain, I laid in my tent and read a short collection of the Conferences and Institutes of John Cassian, a Fourth-Century monk and theologian, who chronicled the wisdom and experience of early monastics in the Egyptian desert. I’ve been fascinated with monastic Christianity for years, and the chance to reflect on the Desert Fathers and Mothers in a setting like the Badlands – very much like a desert – was a gift for those days in the backcountry.  

WHAT IS IT about the harshness of a desert, the sharp rocks, the dry ground, and the overwhelming silence that has drawn faithful Christians from the beginning? In part, it’s the chance to follow the example of Jesus who traversed the wilderness, the desert, for 40 days following his baptism. But John Cassian also points to another motivation in Conferences XVIII: 

Finding then that [hermits] were living near the river Nile in a place which is surrounded on one side by the same river … habitable by none but monks seeking such recesses, since the saltness of the soil and dryness of the sand make it unfit for any cultivation – to these [hermits], I say, we eagerly hastened, and were beyond measure astonished at their labours which they endure in the contemplation of the virtues and their love of solitude. For they are hampered by such a scarcity even of water that the care and exactness with which they portion it out is such as no miser would bestow in preserving and hoarding the most precious kind of wine. 

The harshness and the scarcity of even water in the desert put these early monks and hermits into a posture of utter dependence on God and thanksgiving for the small immensity of the mere essentials for life. The stripping away of anything unessential, anything comfortable, anything distracting allowed for these followers of Jesus to contemplate the richness of God’s mercy and the gift of life itself. And it bred resilience and discipline in their daily lives. 

“The chance to reflect on the Desert Fathers and Mothers in a setting like the Badlands – very much like a desert – was a gift for those days in the backcountry.”

While inspired by the intensity of the lives of these desert mothers and fathers, I don’t think I’ll be retreating to a cave in the Badlands anytime soon. But their lives and the sharp rocks of the Badlands did have me wondering about the distractions and comforts that often cloud my awareness of God’s mercy and activity in my own daily life, those things that hijack my attention and draw me away from my neighbor.

They helped me as well to think about those neighbors who live lives of harshness and inhospitality in our very midst, who do not have the privilege to retreat to the desert as a spiritual exercise, because they live it every day. And they challenged me to hold fast to the knowledge of God’s love and accompaniment when blessings seem dried up, when the challenges of community contribute to isolation, and when the possibilities for new life appear unlikely. Because, just like the little cactus I encountered in the Badlands, all along the crags and the ledges of the deserts in our own lives, God makes a way and the presence of these small miracles is beautiful to behold.  

By Johan Baumeister

The first time I walked into Salem English Lutheran Church was a cold and dreary day in early 2006. I’d visited the Lutherans Concerned (now ReconcilingWorks) website and found the congregation listed as a Reconciling In Christ (RIC) congregation. While I was hopeful that it would be a place where I would feel welcome, my past experience had taught me that not every faith community would meet that need.

There’s a certain vocabulary to exclusion – one which is part learned and part inherited. At its most obvious, it can take the form of condemnation and slurs and stereotypes and policies that prevent not only full inclusion but any meaningful participation in church or society. Over my life I’ve seen this applied to a long list of people that society or the church refused to see as deserving of full dignity and inclusion – a list that included women, people of color, people living with disabilities, and my own LGBTQ+ community.

Exclusion can also have a more subtle vocabulary: One that reserves words like “normal” for certain people and lives. One that expresses resentment about the effort required to unlearn language that demeans others. One that shares a wish that certain folks weren’t “so sensitive”. One that diminishes the concerns of those most impacted by exclusion.

“There’s a certain vocabulary to exclusion.”

Society argues endlessly about that vocabulary these days: What is acceptable and what’s not? Why is “callout culture” or “cancel culture” a problem or why isn’t it? Who is to blame and what level of retribution does their perceived faults merit. And all the while, the souls who are bearing the weight of that extensive vocabulary of exclusion continue to be crushed.

Expending anger at or sitting in judgment of those who create communities of exclusion won’t build what we need. It’s tempting though. Oh, is it ever tempting.

In our 24/7 world, the outrage-driven engagement algorithms center and highlight all the awfulness we can bear – and then some – and only occasionally leaven our feeds or news programs with hope. It is a radical act to resist losing the best parts of ourselves to the outrage, … almost as radical as resisting the exclusion itself.

Resisting outrage for strategic reasons is a difficult one, too. I know I’m not always successful.

SALEM LUTHERAN AND THE ELCA have taught me that we can do better. That first day that I walked into Salem, I met Barb and Roger. They and others there made a practice of deep and radical welcome. I felt respected just as I was, and like I belonged. It only took a handful of conversations, where folks who were loving and caring Lutherans actively listened and expressed support, for Salem to feel like a place of welcome for LGBTQ+ folks.

Instead of responding to exclusion solely with outrage, we can respond with a robust vocabulary of inclusion – a vocabulary built not as a rejection of exclusion but rather as an embrace of the excluded.

A vitally important part of the vocabulary of inclusion is reconciliation. There is no one right path to reconciliation, but there are many ways to avoid doing the work. As someone whose congregation is a RIC congregation, I’m glad to know that more than 10% of the congregations in the ELCA have now become RIC, committed to actively welcoming LGBTQ+ folks and rejecting exclusion. Modeling the importance of inclusion, ReconcilingWorks, the organization that facilitates this process, have themselves committed to building their intersectional work around racial equity and inclusion.

“Instead of responding to exclusion solely with outrage, we can respond with a robust vocabulary of inclusion.”

Being a part of a congregation that has made a public commitment of welcome and reconciliation is deeply meaningful to me, a person who was rejected by the denomination that baptized him. Moreover, that commitment by my congregation has helped me to know it is a safe place in a world that hasn’t always been so and still often isn’t, especially for my transgender siblings in Christ.

I believe that one of the most powerful words in the vocabulary of inclusion is ally. And it isn’t really one we get to bestow upon ourselves. Instead, just as faith without works is a barren tree, claiming allyship without demonstrated efforts is as well. Those we seek to make welcome will see us as allies not by our claim of that label, but by making their well-being our priority and by advocating for their priorities. Leaders in this church did take public stances for and with my own LGBTQ+ community in 2012 and 2013 when they stood in public witness for the dignity and love of same sex couples who weren’t allowed to be married.

I know we can build our vocabulary further, because my church did it for me and others like me. I have faith in us and in our ability to learn from Jesus, who rejected no one and loved all. So, as you celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride, I invite you to recommit to the work. Find ways to keep building your vocabulary of inclusion, because that inclusion is a reflection of Christ’s love.

By Bob Hulteen

The group of synod leaders (Vice President Felicia Boone, Pastors Jen Collins, Ryan Fletcher, David Larson-Martinez, and Siri Strommen) who are helping to plan the 2024 Bishop’s Theological Conference (BTC) gathered at the synod office a couple months ago. When the conversation shifted to the kinds of topics or messages that might be important for our rostered ministers – pastors and deacons – in the fall of 2024, the impact of political elections came up. These leaders were already burdened and fearful by the tone and content of what was happening on the national (and even the local) stage.

“When anxiety runs high, we are normally not at our best.”

Every person in the room had had recent conversations with colleagues who expressed concern over the divisiveness of the political climate, … and its effect on conversations within congregations. They worried about how they would lead in the midst of animosity – if not within their congregation, then in their community. The level of angst is already high, and we haven’t crossed the traditional Labor Day entrance into political debate.

And, it’s not just deacons and pastors. Lay leaders are also experiencing high levels of anxiety about this year’s election. What complicates the normal strong feelings about election this year is the sense for many that it’s not just about who wins; it’s about the prospect of maintaining democracy.

AS A HEAD JUDGE in Minneapolis (at the polling site hosted by St. Peder’s Lutheran Church), I am concerned about the safety of my team judges. Occasionally, disgruntled voters will become quite agitated; if they are already “ginned up” before coming to the polls, negative interactions are even more likely. I fear that, by fall, some of my trusted recurring judges may opt out of providing this basic civil service. (Pray for election judges.)

And, election judges won’t be alone in their levels of stress. Many of you may well be “on edge” as the leaves turn from summer’s green to the golds, oranges, and reds of the ever-too-short fall.

“The pastors and deacons worried about how they would lead in the midst of animosity – if not within their congregation, then in their community.”

Having a plan for response can be the best antidote to high anxiety. Reflect now about what you might want to do to lower your stress level and to be an agent of healing. Here a couple thoughts:

1. Host a service wherein people can acknowledge through litanies their concern and lament over the state of politics. There are many good resources for such services, including some from the synod’s website used a few federal elections ago.
2. Use the proposed draft social statement on Civic Life and Faith this summer or fall for adult education within the congregation.
3. Offer your space for a Respectful Conversations, a program that is sponsored by the Minnesota Council of Churches to offer structured, facilitated discussions intended not to change minds, but to “soften hearts.”
4. Become an election judge yourself. I can speak from experience that there is a definite need for election judges who can maintain calm in potentially tense situations. And, at least in the City of Minneapolis, the training for election judges is utterly amazing. Check with your own locality to inquire about the need.
5. If you feel like you have energy for it, participate in election protection efforts. 866OurVote is a coalition of nonpartisan organizations like the League of Women Voters and Common Cause that have come together to ensure a fair election and to assure voters that participation is important.
6. Pray for the leaders of congregations and of civic organizations who will be under greater scrutiny than ever. Fear of retribution or violence even for nonpartisan activity is high, and we all expect courageous leadership in times that are challenging. Be sensitive to the pressure of leaders of all institutions during this election season.

When anxiety runs high, we are normally not at our best. Preparation may well be the best way to deal now with the coming stress. Make a plan for the fall, … one that keeps the health of your congregations and communities at its center.

And, maybe take a break from social media …