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Church Together: Walking Each Other Home

August 26th, 2025

This post is one of the monthly posts blog posts written by the deans of the conferences of the Minneapolis Area Synod.

By Pastor Kris Tostengard Michel
Bethlehem Lutheran Church Twin Cities

Dean of the South Minneapolis Conference

Last November, we received word that a former member, aged 92, had died. The family had moved away 60 years ago, but for three-and-a-half decades, Bethlehem had been a place where faith was formed, friendships nurtured, and the next generation was introduced to stories and songs about Jesus.  

The man had requested a simple scattering of his cremains. With the family now spread across the country, how would we arrange a ceremony that met the deceased’s request, the current needs of a large and religiously diverse family, and the schedules of all involved? 

The family decided to gather in Minneapolis for a burial in April. My schedule didn’t allow me to go to the burial cemetery, so we arranged for the family to stop by Bethlehem Lutheran Church* for a blessing the day before the inurnment.  

The stained glass in the chapel at Bethlehem Lutheran Church Twin Cities

 

On the morning of the blessing, we were pleasantly surprised to welcome nearly double the number of family members we’d expected! The Holy Spirit was at work! I started thinking about where we’d find some extra chairs, slightly worried about how we’d all fit in the small chapel space. Before the blessing, thinking they may want to see how the space had changed – and not changed — over a few generations, and perhaps hear the majestic organ again, I gave them a tour of the space. They took one look around and said, “Wait…we’ve never been here before…This doesn’t look like the church we remember!” They realized they had belonged to Bethlehem Lutheran Church in North Minneapolis, not South. The Bethlehem they attended had merged with other congregations (Bethlehem and Zion, River of Life, and Christ English) over the years which today is known as Christ the River of Life, a congregation that still worships in the building they had known and loved. They started texting family and friends to make sure everyone was headed to this Bethlehem* on Lyndale Ave South. 

A short time later, with everyone at the same Bethlehem Lutheran Church location, we scooted and squeezed into the tiny chapel. We named the reason for gathering: to remember a beloved father, brother, uncle, and friend, to give thanks for his life, and to commend him to God’s eternal care. I read Scripture, and his loved ones created an impromptu group eulogy. In the intimacy of that space, we looked into each other’s eyes and spoke the truth about his life; he was a beloved child of God, his life on earth mattered, and his life is now with God.  

 

Sometimes I walk by the chapel in the late afternoon when the sun streams through the windows, and I remember the thin place we shared that day when the distance between heaven and earth collapsed. Our gathering wasn’t about a particular place or congregation that worshiped there — Bethlehem here or there. We were a multigenerational company of saints spanning time and distance to accompany another who was traveling on to be with God. We are church together, people simply walking with each other.  

“Blessed be the God and Parent of our Lord Jesus Christ, the source of all mercy and the God of all consolation, who comforts us in all our sorrows so that we can comfort others in their sorrows with the consolation we ourselves have received from God.”  (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)


 

*Bethlehem Lutheran Church Twin Cities was formed in 2009 when Minnetonka Lutheran Church and Bethlehem Lutheran Church of Minneapolis (formed by the 1923 merger of Golgatha and Bethlehem Lutheran Churches) consolidated.  

Sent Out Beyond Your Recall

August 5th, 2025

By Pastor Colin Grangaard, YAGM Alum
First Lutheran Church of Crystal, Brooklyn Park

God speaks to each of us as he makes us, then walks with us silently out of the night.

These are the words we dimly hear: You, sent out beyond your recall, go to the limits of your longing.

Embody me.

Flare up like a flame and make big shadows I can move in.

Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final. Don’t let yourself lose me.

Nearby is the country they call life. You will know it by its seriousness.

Give me your hand.

(Rainer Maria Rilke
Book of Hours, Book I, page 59)

It has almost been 20 years, but if we looked through my photos together, I bet I could still come up with all their names. Eddie played Celtic football until he blew his knee out. Craig was close to my age (at the time) and had the funniest sayings from a brief stint in the Navy and his home in Aberdeen. Lee gave me cooking tips I still use every day. Tom was called “Mr. President” because he’d been in recovery the longest and had a way of setting the new guys straight. For a year, I was welcomed as a volunteer at the Bethany Christian Centre in Edinburgh, Scotland, through the ELCA program, Young Adults in Global Mission (YAGM).

That’s where I learned how our faith practices can save and sustain lives. The Bethany counsellors taught me how to pray from the heart. Every shift change, the staff and volunteers would gather for a handover. Craig’s dark mood or Lee’s distracted preoccupation during our AA/NA step meetings would come up and then be incorporated into our prayers.

That’s where I heard my call to ministry. Traveling overseas was initially the appeal, but I hadn’t imagined how the experience would change me. During my year, I saw redemption, the forgiveness of sins, and the work of the Holy Spirit. I saw healing and transformation up close and in person.

Years later, and after another long-term overseas experience, I remember turning 30 in my first ordained call at Trinity Lutheran Church in Moorhead, MN. It was right about that time that I began to notice that my call to young adult ministry had become less a call to spend time with peers and more another ministry of accompaniment in the midst of the big milestones of young adulthood.

Ten years after my own YAGM year, my wife and I were called to return to the close-knit YAGM community, this time as YAGM Country Coordinators. My family and I lived in Jerusalem from 2015 – 2019 alongside six to eight YAGM volunteers among the Palestinian Lutherans of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in Jordan and the Holy Land (ELCJHL).

The Jerusalem/West Bank iteration of YAGM falls within a six-mile radius. We were privileged to see each other often as we accompanied ministries of the ELCJHL. My wife and I provided educational retreats, hospitality, and a safe place for rest and reflection while staying pretty hands-off… or at least meddling as little as possible. We trusted that despite each year’s challenges, in the midst of complex and conflicting narratives, that the experience itself would do its own work on each of the volunteers – and us. After all, the YAGM program has a way of making big shadows in which the participants and the Spirit move.

“You, sent out beyond your recall, go to the limits of your longing. Embody me.”

It is exciting that the Minneapolis Area Synod will soon be sending out three young adults to YAGM orientation for a year of new experiences. Izzy Demarest will be heading to Argentina/Uruguay, Kristie Olson will go to Central Europe, and Masame Fletcher will be heading to the UK (I heard she might be going to Edinburgh!).

You, too, are invited into their journey. Each young adult is tasked with raising at least $5,000. We are grateful that the YAGM program is made possible through the generous support of members throughout the ELCA. Please also consider accompanying these individual young adults in their year of service through sponsorship. Through regular newsletters and social media posts, you will get to witness their growth and work as the year — and their lives — unfold.

 Isabelle Demarest

Isabelle Demarest will be doing her YAGM year in Argentina/Uruguay.

Her home church is Holy Nativity, New Hope, and she was an active member of Lutheran Campus Ministry and Grace University, Minneapolis, while she was studying at the University of Minnesota.

You can support Isabelle and her life-changing journey through a financial donation.

 Masame Fletcher

Masame Fletcher will be doing her YAGM year in the United Kingdom. She leaves for Scotland on August 25.

Her home church is Christ Memorial Lutheran, Plymouth.

You can support Masame’s YAGM year through a financial donation.

 Kristie Olson

Kristie Olson will be serving in Budapest, Hungary, where she will have a couple different work sites. 

Her home church is Woodlake Lutheran Church, Richfield, where she just recently finished working as their Communications Director.

You can support Kristie through a financial donation.

Building Beloved Community – We Can’t Do It Alone

July 21st, 2025

This post is one of the monthly posts blog posts written by the deans of the conferences of the Minneapolis Area Synod.

By Pastor Rhonda Hlavinka
Salem English Lutheran Church, Minneapolis
Dean of the Central Conference

South Minneapolis Day Camp is a collaboration of more than 15 congregations that come together each summer. This amazing group effort goes back way before my time at Salem, but for the past nine years I have had the privilege of serving as one of its leaders. Several years ago, we decided we needed a name other than just a geographical description and “Building Beloved Community – South Minneapolis Day Camp” was birthed.

I tell people all the time that this group of leaders from all these congregations is one of the best teams I get to work on. Each year, we gather in January to begin planning for one special week in June and pick a theme. We collaborate on everything from rotations, special guests, daily stories, and volunteers. We even have our very own songwriter, Gus, who, with the help of our campers, writes a day camp original each year.

What I want to share with you, aside from the background above, is a few of the reasons why this collaborative ministry – this chance to do church together – is so beautiful.

  • When you gather 15 church staff from different congregations, you pool a whole lot of creativity, skills, resources, and passions that none of us could do on our own.
  • While we are made up of congregations that range in size, likely none of our congregations would be able to host a day camp on our own. (Participation among congregations this summer averaged 6 kids per congregation.)
  • There are some years that congregations have participants, and some years they don’t – but it doesn’t matter because we are all still committed to being in this together.
  • Instead of having to do everything on our own, we get to lean into our individual gifts as leaders. We even stretch into new skills once in a while. (Who knew I could become so good at volunteer coordination?)
  • This once-a-year camp makes a difference for kids and families.
    • Some of these kids from other congregations, I only see once a year. But still, there is a special relationship we have forged that neither they nor I forget.
    • Because we offer camp for 5 full days, we give families a real option instead of day care for an entire week.
    • We offer our campers opportunities they may not get anywhere else. (Addressing environmental justice with an entire cardboard city, dancing and drumming with our Haitian friends from Afoutayi, and a middle school field trip to George Floyd Square, Calvary Food Pantry, and All Nations Indian Church … just to name a few.)
    • We strive to teach kids agency – to know they are an active part of their community and they make a difference. (They have talked with legislators, written letters to the mayor, practiced community organizing, and created their own protest signs about the things that matter to them.)

I could go on, but then this blog would be way longer than it should be. So here’s the main point, I suppose. (And it’s not just that our day camp is super cool.) The point is that God’s intention is for all of us to live in beloved community, and that kind of God-intended community is not something we do alone. Beloved community is Church Together. (Did you see how I brought our theme for the year right back around?)

Now, for those of you who like numbers and figures, here’s some of the math from our 2025 Building Beloved Community – South Minneapolis Day Camp:

109 K-8 Grade Kids
+ 20 High School Youth Mentors
+ 46 Adult Volunteers
+ 10 Special Guests
+ 15 Church Staff during the week
+ 166 Shirts Tie Dyed!
+ 90 Painted Kindness Rocks
+ 1 New Song written by Gus and the Kids
+ 750 Snacks delivered by the Snack Fairy!
+ 1 Free Little Library with…
+ 70 Shingles painted by kids
+ 30 Separate Rotations
+ 68 Stuffies made by elementary kids in Art!
+ 10
Openings and Closings with…
+ 50 Songs to sing
+ 1 Middle School all-day Fieldtrip
+ 1 Story Book as Inspiration for it ALL
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= So Much Beloved Community!

Part of the financial support for the South Minneapolis Day Camp comes through the Synod’s Summer Youth Program. The Summer Youth Program is funded through the generous mission support given by Minneapolis Area Synod congregations – thank you!

Is God Calling You to Partner With Us?

July 11th, 2025

This post continues the Mission Table’s “Year of Partnership” highlighting the new and strategic ministries of the Minneapolis Area Synod. Lao Evangelical Lutheran is one of the strategic ministries and worships in Robbinsdale.

By Pastor Thiem Baccam
Lao Evangelical Lutheran Church, Robbinsdale

My name is Thiem Baccam, and I have served as the pastor of Lao Evangelical Lutheran Church for over 30 years. Lao Evangelical was developed and organized here in the Minneapolis Area Synod as a ministry of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America. The church has gone through up and down times. There was a time when our community had grown to include more than one hundred members. At present, we are a small Laotian congregation, worshipping in facilities provided by Elim Lutheran Church, Robbinsdale. We extend our thanks to Elim for the kind welcome, for the generous hospitality that they have shown us, and for a place that the Lao church can call home. We are also thankful to the Minneapolis Area Synod for its support and prayers. 

When this Lao church started, our calling was to do outreach among the first generation of Laotian immigrants in the Minneapolis area. Bible studies and worship were conducted entirely in the Lao language. Three decades later, the congregation has transformed and is being led by the second generation. It has been necessary to adapt and change. Worship is now done bilingually making use of both Lao and English. 

A group from Lao Evangelical on July 4, 2025

 

Pastor Thiem doing a baptism in 2024

While culture and leadership are different, the mission and vision are still to witness and share the gospel of Jesus Christ with Laotian neighbors and with all people: “this gospel of the Kingdom will be preached in the whole world as a testimony to all nations. (Matthew 24:14)

As we continue the work to which we are called, we need partner congregations to help sustain and encourage us. We pray and hope for partners in Christ that share our passion for outreach among the Laotian community. Partnering with our community is an opportunity to learn and share the love of God together. Ministry partnerships are especially important because of the deep relationships they can build. 

If you sense God’s call to begin a partnership with Lao Evangelical, please reach out and start a conversation with us. To help you discern, here are some specific ways that we are looking to partner:

  • In Prayer…that the Gospel will be preached and the Holy Spirit will reach into the hearts of the Laotian community. 
  • Through People…to help with music, youth activities, and additional programming. 
  • Through Technology…for developing a website and other “marketing” materials to reach into the Laotian community. 

Lao Evangelical is willing to assist ministry partners in serving the Lord together. We want to encourage you in your calling to reach out to neighbors and show God’s love and care. We are committed to praying for ministry partners. I invite you to pray and respond if God is calling you to begin a new relationship with us. 

Lao Evangelical Lutheran Church
3978 West Broadway Ave.
Robbinsdale, MN 55422

pastthiem@comcast.net

Anxious Generation

June 23rd, 2025

This post is one of the monthly posts blog posts written by the deans of the conferences of the Minneapolis Area Synod. 


By Pastor Sue Olson
Long Lake Lutheran Church, Isanti
Dean of the Northern Conference

In Paul’s letter to the Philippians, chapter 4, verses 6 & 7, we are reminded: “ Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Yet, we have raised an anxious generation and are facing a mental health crisis. In his book, “The Anxious Generation,” Jonathan Haidt makes a case for the decline in the mental health of our adolescents and a rise in depression, anxiety, self-harm, and suicide. He’s a social scientist who believes that a play-based childhood began to decline in the 1980s and was replaced by the phone-based childhood in the early 2010s. Think about that and where you fit in. Think about it again and see where the children you work with fit in. This generation of adolescents should be happier and healthier than any other generation throughout history, yet they are lonely and sleep deprived and have attention deficits and social anxieties.

I read this book with fascination as I related it to the decline of youth programs and youth participation in worship and education. I strongly encourage anyone who works with children, youth and families to read this book. (“The Anxious Generation” by Jonathan Haidt, ISBN 978-0-593-65503-0 Penguin Press, 2024) I agree that children need outside play and unstructured play. We over-supervise our children and are overly fearful for their safety. None of us over 50 were raised with parents watching our every move. Currently, many youth spend the majority of their time indoors, sitting alone in their bedrooms using screens. They constantly compare and shame each other: what they are wearing, what they are eating, what activities they are engaged in. They play video games for hours with “friends,” who are really strangers, from all over the world and are engaging in fewer face-to-face interactions. Daily time spent with actual friends has dropped dramatically in just 10 years. This is all very concerning.

Many homes previously had one shared computer in a public place in their home where parents could see everything their child was looking at. Now, many kids have access to computers or smart phones in the privacy of their bedrooms. You don’t have to think too hard to imagine what they can access on purpose or run into accidentally.

Haidt explains how our youth have become addicted to screen time; the neurotransmitters in their brains receive dopamine when an action feels good or is rewarded. Algorithms in computer programs and games are designed to dole out these rewards to build habits. Pleasure motivates users to keep using. Game developers and social media developers manipulate users with similar tactics as animal behaviorists. Studies quoted in the Haidt book state that the average teen reports spending more than seven hours a day on screen-based leisure activities which do not include school and homework. Most don’t have time, or interest in what we have to offer for youth programming. We can’t compete.

So, Paul says, “do not worry.” Jesus and angels constantly say, “do not be afraid.” Yet, I am fearful for this generation of youth. Of course, there are wonderful kids and parents; not all computer and screen use is bad, and not all are addicted to smart phones. But the statistics are concerning for many kids worldwide. We want this next generation to flourish, and I truly believe they need God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit to do that. They need a faith community for support. It’s helpful to be aware of our competition for our message. What is good news to us is “meh” to many. I wish I had an answer. Meanwhile, I will try not to be anxious; try not to worry, and pray, pray, pray.

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.
Philippians 4:23

My Take: API Stories in Church and Scripture

June 10th, 2025

By Rev. Aaron Fuller
Originally published in Living Lutheran

For Asian Pacific Islander Heritage Month (API), I was asked to reflect on “Asians in the Bible.” I wish to focus on two characters who best represent the experience of API people: Hagar and Ishmael (Genesis 16 and 21:8-21).

Hagar is Sarah’s slave. She was given to Abraham to breed a male heir since Sarai was barren. This was successful, and Hagar became pregnant and produced a boy, Ishmael. This news traps Hagar and Ishmael in a cycle of being exiled to the wilderness and accepted back into Abraham’s house, a result of Sarah feeling threatened by them and Abraham’s indifference. Ultimately, Hagar and Ishmael were banished to the wilderness, discarded and never seen again.

Korean American theologian Grace Ji-Sun Kim writes“Invisibility persists throughout the [API] story. Occupying a vague social status, APIs have long been perceived as a deferential foreigner, an individual with economic significance who exercises their inherent diligence in academic and professional spaces but possesses little social importance. As a result, Asian Americans are widely excluded from mainstream discussions of race in this country … and thus remain in an unstable state where they can be designated as good or bad depending on political tempers …” (Invisible: Theology and the Experience of Asian American Women; Fortress Press, 2021).

Invisibility is the experience of APIs in society and the ELCA. According to the 2020 U.S. Census, APIs comprise 8% of the total U.S. population, a 35% increase from the previous census. Yet, APIs are severely underrepresented in the most visible spaces of society.  According to a 2021 study, despite APIs representing the second largest demographic across STEM career fields, they fall behind four major ethnic groups in midlevel and executive leadership positions. Within the ELCA, APIs account for less than 1% of its active membership and congregations. They are less visible among ELCA rostered ministers, representing about 2%, and no API leader has served on the Conference of Bishops in the ELCA’s 37-year history. These statistics reinforce the stigma that APIs are an invisible and “statistically insignificant” presence within society and the church.

As a result, APIs are often labeled as “model minorities” who are welcomed when their presence benefits the dominant structures of society and the church but are quickly discarded when they no longer provide value. As model minorities, they are also marginalized in conversations about race. API racism is softened in language to “Asian hate” in mainstream media and receives less attention compared to other racial groups.  While ELCA API leaders organized a “first of its kind” celebration last year, this is an exception rather than the norm, as API invisibility persists at all levels of society and the church.

 

I do not share these statistics and realities to shame or blame anyone. Invisibility is how APIs experience racism in society and the church. Imposing and perpetuating invisibility on us leads to abuse, hostility and exile. We find ourselves “betwixt and between,” constantly struggling with the fact that we are “both invisible and necessary to culture,” Kim writes. Like Hagar and Ishmael, accepting our invisibility is easier than speaking out against it. We try to fit in despite knowing we don’t. We return to spaces of marginalization despite the pain caused by living in them. At the same time, API invisibility calls us to crucial spiritual work, challenging our motivations as Christians within society and the church who work for racial justice. Are we equitable in our efforts to celebrate and raise concerns for all marginalized people, or is it to increase numerical and financial growth and improve the institution’s reputation? Does our cause for racial justice come at the cost of exploiting, commodifying and creating competition between the very people we advocate for?  We recognize, along with Kim, that “when we think about [APIs] as marginalized people, we recognize power imbalance and the need to give them their agency.”

API invisibility reveals that the sin of racism creates a war within all of us, whether marginalized or privileged. We resist doing and saying what we know to be morally right, despite knowing that Christ calls us and that we must. Not wanting to expose this internal battle, we all choose invisibility. It becomes easier to justify our current efforts rather than confess their inadequacy, their potential harm, and choose a better path. Yet, I dare to speak on behalf of all API to say there is hope. Hagar and Ishmael’s story does not end in invisibility. She proclaims: “You are the God who sees me. … I have now seen the One who sees me” (Genesis 16:13; New International Version). As APIs, we do not lose heart in the struggle for racial justice. Like Hagar and Ishmael, God makes us visible, giving us the moral courage to be visible and to lead a ministry of truly seeing others as God does!

Aaron Fuller (he/him) is a transracial adoptee. He currently serves as pastor of Bratislava (Slovakia) International Church and chaplain (commander) in the U.S. Navy Reserve, representing the ELCA, and is rostered in the Minneapolis Area Synod.  

Beyond the Pulpit: Stewardship, Sustainability, and “Other Duties as Assigned”

May 27th, 2025

This post is one of the monthly posts blog posts written by the deans of the conferences of the Minneapolis Area Synod. 

By Pastor Ian Coen-Frei
Dean of the North Minneapolis Conference
Pastor at Gustavus Adolphus Lutheran Church, Minneapolis

In nearly five years of ordained ministry, the phrase “other duties as assigned” has become a familiar refrain. I suspect many rostered leaders and church staff members, especially those serving family or pastoral-sized congregations, can relate. Often, when parishioners see me engaged in tasks beyond preaching, teaching, or presiding, they’ll mention this phrase with a good-natured chuckle. But the reality is that many unseen “other duties” are crucial to the life of a worshipping community, and these often fall to the paid staff.

High on this list of unseen duties is the care and maintenance of the places where we gather for worship and community life. Since beginning my current call in August 2023, I’ve become intimately familiar with the significant time and resources required to keep our 72-year-old steam boiler system operational. Conversations with colleagues across the synod confirm a common challenge: aging buildings and worship spaces often demand a substantial portion of resources that could otherwise more directly fuel the missions we so boldly proclaim. While safe and comfortable gathering spaces are essential supports for our missions, they can inadvertently become the primary focus of our resources, rather than a catalyst for sharing them.

This is a tension I’ve certainly felt. That’s why I’m eager to share a resource that is helping my congregation shift our building from being a primary focus of resources to a catalyst for our mission.

 

Last fall, an ad offering “Free Smart Thermostats” for businesses caught my eye. Skeptical as I usually am about anything advertised as “free,” I reached out to the Center for Energy and Environment (CEE). To my pleasant surprise, the offer was genuine! Just two weeks later, two of our 30-year-old thermostats were replaced with new smart thermostats at no cost to us.

Then, as sometimes happens with aging infrastructure, one of our 30-year-old furnaces failed in January. While we had budgeted for a direct replacement, our collaboration with CEE led to a different outcome. They helped us navigate rebates and grants, allowing us to install a more efficient heat pump for almost 20% less than the cost of a direct furnace replacement.

More recently, noticing the many flickering and burnt-out fluorescent tubes in our fellowship hall, I remembered that CEE also conducts lighting assessments and assists with rebates to significantly lower the cost of transitioning to LED lighting. Thanks to this process, we are now poised to upgrade all the lights in our building to LED. This will not only make our space more welcoming but also significantly reduce our energy consumption and costs annually.

I’m not a spokesperson for CEE. However, as a pastor whose congregation has benefited immensely from their work – making our building more sustainable, welcoming, and comfortable – I wholeheartedly encourage other congregations to reach out to them. Discover what might be possible for your community and how your building can better serve as a catalyst for your mission.

Worshipping BOLDly

May 20th, 2025

Updated blog coming soon. In the meantime, check out BOLD’s website to learn more about their ministry. 

Not Just a Moment: What Eucharist Teaches Us About Showing Up

May 13th, 2025

By Dr. Kelly Sherman-Conroy
Associate Pastor, All Nations Indian Church
 

I stood alongside our youth and my friend and colleague, Brenda, at our Synod Assembly, to speak from the deep ache of our Native community. It wasn’t about statistics; it was about longing to be a whole Body of Christ. I talked about Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls. I didn’t just offer words; I offered ceremony. For me, that moment at the microphone was Eucharist. I shared what Eucharist means in my Lakota tradition. It is not just bread and wine. It is not confined to a church service or to a single moment. It is ceremony. It is relationship. It is the act of bringing someone back into the circle and making them present again through love, memory, and connection. 

Eucharist in my Lakota way is about wholeness. Eucharist is what we do when we gather in prayer, when we remember those we’ve lost, and when we act in ways that restore balance and justice. It is a lived expression of kinship. The Eucharist says, “You are not forgotten. You still belong here.” 

When I was offering ceremony at the microphone, I said that Native women make up less than one percent of Minnesota’s population, yet Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls account for eight percent of all missing women and girls in our state. That statistic is not just shocking; it is heartbreaking. Our missing beloveds and the statistics tell us what so many in our communities already know. Our lives are not treated with the same care.  

After my offering, someone stood up and questioned why Native women were being centered.  

That moment hurt. But what hurt more was what came next. 

Nothing. 

No one stood up. No one spoke out. There wasn’t a single voice of outcry from the memorial’s signers. Not one pastor stepped in. Not one friend said at that moment, “That isn’t right.” I stood there with my heart pounding, wondering if anyone would see what was unfolding. The silence became louder than the question itself. It felt like my grief was being asked to stand alone, to be put on display and be objectified. I kept scanning the room, hoping someone would meet my eyes, hoping someone in a room filled with friends and colleagues would speak to honor the ceremony I offered to the Assembly. But no one did. 

It has taken me days to name that pain of isolation and loneliness. Not just because of what was questioned, but because of who stayed quiet. The silence was heavy. It spoke its own message. 

Silence can communicate so much, depending upon context. There is a kind of silence that is sacred. The kind that holds space for grief, for the presence of God, for deep listening. There is also a kind of silence that wounds. The silence happens when truth is spoken into a space, and no one stands beside it and affirms it. There is a silence that happens when an act of harm is on public display, and no one interrupts. That kind of silence is not reverent; it is complicit in harm. 

This is not about blame. It’s about what silence communicates. 

 

When no one speaks up, silence reinforces the very invisibility I just named. It tells us that our stories are too uncomfortable, and that people seek comfort in silence at the expense of a beloved sibling. Our grief is too political. Our presence is too much. Silence leaves the weight of the moment on the shoulders of the already burdened. 

What I needed in that moment wasn’t a flawless response. I just needed someone to say, “I see you. I’m here.” I needed someone to share the weight. 

We talk about being the body of Christ. Paul writes, “If one member suffers, all suffer together.” That isn’t just a comforting idea. It’s a call to live differently. To listen actively. To step in when the moment is hard and the silence starts to close in. 

When we talk about Eucharist from a Lakota perspective, we are talking about a way of being. It is not a once-a-week ritual. It is how we hold memory in our bones and live it through embodied action. It is how we bring our relatives close through prayer, ceremony, and justice. It is how we say with our whole lives, “You are not alone.” 

Eucharist is an embodiment of justice. In both the Christian and Lakota traditions, it is not only something we remember, but also something we do. When Jesus said, “Do this in remembrance of me,” he was not asking for performance. He was inviting us into practice. Remembrance is not passive. It is love that moves and does. Justice takes shape in that practice. In my Lakota tradition, Eucharist is how we bring healing to what has been broken and belonging to those who have been pushed aside. 

If we want to be a Church that truly remembers, then we must be a Church that responds, that shows up and speaks when others hesitate. That is Eucharist. 


The Memorial mentioned in this blog post is RC2025 06 Memorial: Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women (MMIW). The Memorial was adopted and will be brought to the ELCA Churchwide Assembly in July 2025.

The MN Swahili Women’s Ministry…Happening!

April 26th, 2025

This post continues the Mission Table’s “Year of Partnership” highlighting the new and strategic ministries of the Minneapolis Area Synod. Minnesota Swahili Christian Church is one of the strategic ministries and worships in South Minneapolis.

By Lulu Semakula
Lulu is a high school senior at Irondale High School in Mounds View. She will be heading to Colorado to join the Airforce Academy next year.

The room is alive with color, music, and the warmth of community. Dressed in vibrant fabrics and glowing with joy, men and women (young and old) gather for what’s become the most anticipated event of our year—the annual Swahili Church Women’s Gala. It’s more than a celebration—it’s a statement of who we are and who we’ve become.

The Women’s Ministry at Swahili Church has grown in ways we never imagined. What started as a small circle of prayer and support has transformed into the strongest and most active ministry in our congregation. The women truly lead, serve, and show up. And through it all, they’ve created a space where women are empowered to connect, grow in their faith, support one another, and spread Good News to “their neighbors”.

Fundraising is crucial for our Swahili Women’s Ministry. Through annual individual financial contribution commitment and the funds obtained from selling gala tickets, the Ministry provides support for women facing pregnancy and health related challenges, general health issues, the loss of loved ones, and most importantly –offering both emotional and physical help (feeding the sick or care of children, etc.). The amount of support and care this group has for one another is priceless – considering many of us do not have blood-tied family members within the country limits.

By far, besides remaining the most vital fundraising event of the year, the Gala is the coolest and the most fun event. It is the heartbeat of the Swahili ministry. It’s a doorway to the community. It is the Swahili way we welcome others into our community: all genders, young and old adults – with open arms. Just as we all prepare our homes for guests, the Swahili Women work hard to make everything just right, from the food and music, to the decorations and conversation and sometimes traditional dances by several aunties. It’s the community’s way of saying, “Karibu! (Welcome!). Come in and let’s connect and have a good time together.”

On a personal note, it is an honor to share this fun part of my congregation. At the Gala, we dance, we eat, we laugh—and in the process, we build deeper relationships that stretch across generations and cultures. The Gala, and the ministry behind it, is a bridge between our African roots and the American lives we’re building. It’s a way of holding both identities with pride, honoring our past while embracing our future.

If you’ve never joined us before, this is your invitation. Come experience the joy, the sisterhood, and the powerful spirit that fills the room. Come be part of something beautiful on Saturday, May 3, at the Mounds View Community Center.

You’re invited: 

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